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Anonymous asked: Hey Isaac! Just read your post on the friendzone and I'm hoping you'll have some specific advice for my situation. I was seeing a guy, not for that long - a couple months, and about a month ago he broke up with me (said it wasn't working). We're trying to be friends but I think deep down I'm hoping we will get back together. This is despite the fact that he's ruled it out. Am I just a sucker to keep hanging out with him? I do like his company but I have doubts about my motives. What to do!?
You need to listen to what he’s said and accept that the relationship isn’t going to happen. Either cut your losses and be his friend or cut ties. It’s as simple as that. An old friend messaged me yesterday about my post and said this:
The basic rules to live by in my opinion are:
1. Politely state your intention.
2. Move on (romantically speaking) when the person says no.
3. If you’ve agreed to just be friends then honour that. -
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Anonymous asked: any words of comfort for someone who just got dumped?
The hardest thing about being in a relationship that breaks up is that it feels like you let somebody see everything that you are and they turned around and said, “thanks but no thanks”. The reality is that you’re not going to be right for some people and some people are not going to be right for you. It doesn’t reflect badly on you as a human being, it doesn’t mean you’re not attractive or clever or funny or charming, it just means that one person decided that they needed different things from the person that they’re eventually going to want to spend their whole life with. Who knows? In a week or two when the broken heart begins to mend, maybe you’ll reflect on the relationship and decide that the person you were with wasn’t 100% right for you, either. Spend tons of time with your friends and family, keep busy, and look at it as an opportunity to go achieve something you’ve been wanting to do for ages. Best of luck.
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